That's a particular skill, and not every children's entertainer has it. We'll find you someone whose magic works on a five year old and a seventy-five year old in the same moment.
Christenings and naming days
At a christening the baby is the reason for the day, but the older children are the ones who need entertaining. Usually they've been sat still in church for an hour and have energy to spare.
A short show or some games in the afternoon gives them a focus, while the adults chat. It also stops them racing round the function room with a plate of sausage rolls.
Reunions and big birthdays
Family reunions, golden weddings and a grandparent's 80th often bring several generations together. Here, a magician who can move around and perform close-up magic for small groups at tables is often a better fit than one big show.
Some entertainers do both. A bit of close-up magic while everyone mingles, then a short show where the children sit at the front and the adults watch from behind. That way nobody feels it's been laid on just for the kids.
Garden parties and barbecues
Outdoor family parties are great fun, but think about the practical bits. Magic and wind don't mix well, and bright sunshine makes it hard for children to see. A gazebo or a shady corner helps a lot.
Always have a plan B indoors, or at least under cover. And let the entertainer know if they'll be on grass, gravel or a patio, so they can bring the right kit.
Think about where the children will sit, too. A rug or picnic blankets on the grass in front of the entertainer gives them a clear spot, and the adults can pull their chairs up behind.
Babies, toddlers and the very old
A family do usually includes the youngest and the oldest people anyone knows. For babies and toddlers, the entertainer should keep loud bangs to a minimum and give parents room to scoop a little one up and step out.
For older relatives, think about seating. Put a row of chairs where they can actually see, rather than at the back behind the standing adults. A magician who comes over to the table so Nan can pick a card will often get the biggest smile of the afternoon.
And if someone in the family has a big birthday or an anniversary on the same day, mention it. A nod to them in the show is a lovely touch.
Magic that works for grown-ups too
The best family entertainers write their show on two levels. Slapstick and silliness for the children, and the odd sharper line or genuinely baffling trick that gets the adults leaning in. Grandparents often end up being the most delighted people in the room.
If you've got a mix of ages, mention who's coming when you ask for a quote. A family party with mostly adults might suit a magician who usually does close-up work, while one that's mainly children might suit a children's entertainer.
Timing it into the day
Family events tend to have a natural shape: arrivals, food, speeches or cake, then the long lazy afternoon. The entertainment usually works best after food, when the children are getting restless and the adults have settled.
Tell us the rough running order on the quote form, and roughly how many children and adults you're expecting. We'll suggest someone who fits, and you'll get a clear price before anything's booked.